{"id":452,"date":"2014-11-23T11:00:52","date_gmt":"2014-11-23T16:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tarunmendiratta.com\/hawan.net\/wp\/?p=452"},"modified":"2017-01-31T17:08:05","modified_gmt":"2017-01-31T22:08:05","slug":"kartavya-november-2014","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/?p=452","title":{"rendered":"Kartavya (November 2014)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"yiv6934358584yui_3_16_0_1_1416333598025_594958\">\n<p>&#8220;Thanks!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No, please don&#8217;t say thanks! It was my duty.&#8221; (&#8220;Nahin, nahin. Yeh to mera kartavya tha.&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>We observe such exchanges on regular basis in movies and storybooks &#8211; and sparingly in real life. Even though it sounds fine, do we really understand the true meaning of the term Kartavya? Hasn&#8217;t the word \u201ckartavya\u201d become a clich\u00e9, which nobody wants to use? In the Hinduism, a code of conduct is defined for every role we play in life; this code of conduct is Kartavya. This month&#8217;s assignment and a point to pay attention in our day-to-day life until the next hawan is <strong>Kartavya (Duties)<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>As part of the assignment, the kids will focus on the following three points:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 The \u00a0true meaning of the term Kartavya (Duties).<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 That, the duties are tied to the roles of a person \u2013 and not the person himself\/herself. For example, it is possible for a boy, who has a set of duties as a brother, to have a different set of duties as a son and an altogether different set of duties as a student.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 The benefits of fulfilling one\u2019s duties. This is the key part of the assignment. In today\u2019s world, where selfishness is viewed as an advantage, it is difficult for kids \u2013 and perhaps adults, too \u2013 to appreciate the significance of the duties. Unfortunately, it is not difficult to see undesirable behaviors or examples around us where adults aren\u2019t fulfilling their duties \u2013 be it as a son, a brother, or a citizen. Knowing it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to change the behavior after a certain age, let\u2019s take this month\u2019s assignment as an opportunity to have heart-to-heart discussions with our kids on this topic. It is also the time for us parents to reflect on whether we are performing all those duties that we want our kids to follow.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We hope to hear the kids\u2019 hearts and real-life stories in this month\u2019s hawan.<\/p>\n<p>Regards,<\/p>\n<p>Harsh Mendiratta<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hawan.net\/\">www.hawan.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Thanks!&#8221; &#8220;No, please don&#8217;t say thanks! It was my duty.&#8221; (&#8220;Nahin, nahin. Yeh to mera kartavya tha.&#8221;) We observe such exchanges on regular basis in movies and storybooks &#8211; and sparingly in real life. Even though it sounds fine, do we really understand the true meaning of the term Kartavya? Hasn&#8217;t the word \u201ckartavya\u201d become a clich\u00e9, which nobody wants [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-452","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-4","category-monthly-articles"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/452","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=452"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/452\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=452"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=452"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hawan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=452"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}